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writes:Hey all from broken heart, Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me , and he clarified to me that he doesn’t want me anymore, I live in his place since 8 months He told me to move , I am destroyed , exhausted , dying , Today I talked to him about the possibilities of this relationship I cried and cried and I asked him to think about it again He said you can stay here for a while , as friend And we may see if it work out again between us I don’t know if this is the right solution or not I feel my self cheap because I asked him again What shall I do in this stage ?? Stay with him as friend , I am not sure if it would work out Leave ? I don’t know I love him and I miss him
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reader, Leen +, writes (12 August 2009):
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he hurted me with out any valuable reason , nothing I don’t know what I I did , he is too clever but he has many exs partner , another ex added to his account ,,, i am still in his place , cuz its not easy to find new place , i am moving in one week time hopefully , in the meantime , i don’t want to see his true face . ugly and dirty
i am proud of my self because i didn’t hurt him he did and this life is fair and there is a justice and I will see one day on him
and he will get who will hurt him
I feel better now
Thanks guys for your support
I feel much better and I can sleep and this is the time for me now
leen
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Don't make a fool out of yourself. He dumped you and asked you to move out. Do just that. Move on with your life. I know its hard but you'll be proud of yourself later in life. Find somewhere else to go and begin your journey of getting over him right away. I know it feels like it's the end of the world but it's not. In time you will look back and it won't mean anything. I've been dumped before, I thought that was the end of the world, but now I'm happy I got dumped coz those guys didn't deserve me.Good luck.
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reader, Kavanna  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 i no it may seems like its going to brake u but you need to leave and dont look back when u leave and he calls you begging for you to go back let him no that you cant do that make him beg like u did for the love u wish not to loose... see some men do thing like that because there scared but when they see that it hurts the other person they change there minds as he did to you but if u stay your never going to be happy knowing that he is not yours and dont feel the way you do it will tear you apart little by little run and dont turn back get you together then may be if he runs back to you wait dont give in to quick...
stay strong and i wish u the best luck xoxo vanna
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Hai girl,so pitty to hear you cried.if someone brock your heart it doesn't mean that it's the end of the world you diserve better.you cann't rise a dead man if his dead his dead leave his house for now and see if he will come to you,if he doesn't come.you let it go!you love him but he doesn't loves you back.it's need to fair he loves you,you love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): I feel your pain. Ive been there. But at the end of the day, love yourself more than anyone else, take small steps but do move on with your life. He will only ever miss you if you are gone from his life. You will only build yourself up on your own.
Today,
1/ plan one nice thing for yourself, a walk , a chat with a freind, whatever, focus on it, do it and enjoy it.
2/ Do one thing which scares you but which feels right, search for a place for you, make a list of the things which you dont like about him.
3/ Take time to cry , your hurt and thats fair enough dont hide from it, feel it then dry your eyes and you will be better for it.
Ive been here as have many people on this forum, you will get through this. It may not seem like it but you will.
I hope this helps.
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