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writes: I'm a gay guy 20yrs, in love with my best friend (who is Bisexual) since childhood. I couldn't tell him over the years but last year i told him and he was ok with it. we had great sex for a couple of months and he went abroad..since then i missed him like hell and i was always waitin for that moment when he will come back.. and so ready to have some good sex.. and he did come back, but now he doesn't want to have sex because he already got a gf and he likes her better so he wants to keep sex life with her.. I don't know if anyone know how i feel but it surely is painful. He still wants to be my friend and i can't get on with it if i have contact with him.. anyways, now he left abroad again and i miss him so much i can barely sleep.. i have attempted suicide but saved by chance.. I can't stop thinking about him for a moment.. should i have no contact with him and try to move on (which i think is impossible) or just wait for him to change his mind abt that new gf? help me plz..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): i think you should try to forget him,though it's very hard but only time can tell if you were meant for each other.try to do interested things like moutain climbing that is the best to forget some one
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (19 June 2005):
 I think thaat you should respect his decision, but you should also tell him you feel. if he is a true friend, he should most likely be able to understand where you are coming from. sit him down without his girlfriend and tell him that you have secretly loved him and loved having sex with with him, he may even feel the same way and go out with you, and leave his girlfriend. maybe he just wants her the sex, idk. just talk to him about it. the best way to figure things out is by commun ication. listen to me good luck ~Robin~ aka advice gurl
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (13 June 2005):
 Hey I think you should go out, Flirt have some flings and make him feel jealous and make him see what hes been missing out on! You deserve better than him if he cant see how you feel about him. He must be blind and stupid to be missing out on you. If he loves you he'll come for you but dont wait for him!!
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reader, lil mama101 +, writes (12 June 2005):
You should just go back and try being just friends and start looking for someone else. He might come back. If he don't you should try moving on but still try to keep your friendship. At least he will still be in your life.
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