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writes:What to do next?Here goes, I have annoyed a good friend whom I now realise means more to me than I thought. We had an arguement over repairing my car last weekend, and he called me a know it all, that I didn,t know what i was talking about, and that I always had to have the last word. LOL, don,t we girls always have to. But joking apart I have hit a raw nerve with him here and I am at a loss of knowing how to move it on. I have not bombarded him with messages or phone calls as I felt it would be better to let things calm down. I have popped a note through his door apologising for my behaviour, (as I did stand up for myself), and one pleasant text. But he has not contacted me. Any ideas? do i wait or do i leave it and put it down to experience.I would normally, tackle this head on and ask what it was that has offended him, but somethings stopping me, call it intuition, gut feeling, the fact he has not texted me. He/we normally exchange a few texts each day. I felt we had lots in common and this is the first major spat we have had in all the time i have known him, we have had disagreements, but nothing that has gone on as long as this? I feel silly writing this but it is now starting to get to me and I would like to apologise for upsetting him.Thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Hi Guys,
Thanks for the replies, decided to leave contacting hm until he weekend. The world cup is on so I guess he will be glued to a tv drinking a beer or too. work colleagues have told me to leave contacting him full stop. they are concerned that the relationship, all be it a frienship, was too one sided anyway. Think I,ll not bother in future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): You could text and check he got the note.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 June 2010):
He just needs a few days to cool off. You've tried you to apologize, which is good. Give him a couple of days then try again.
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