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writes:He's a coworker and his GF works there too but in another department. We had usually being friends but mostly work things, we had never interested in each other, in fact I never even considered him before.But lately, he has change with me, I didn't notice until a friend of mine said so. He stares at me, if I'm in the room and have to leave he tells not to, he takes the chances to be close to me, he likes to touch me(not like dirty) but like to tocuh my leg with his, my arms, tickles me, I caught him staring at my behind the other day.So, I decided to talk with him and see what's he being up to. And I asked about his girl, if they're planning to marry and he said he was starting to think about it, that he had thought into cheating (in general not saying with me) but he doesn't want trouble, and then he said that by now starting a relationship with someone else would be hard, to find someone who he can get along like her now, yada yada. So I didn't said anything else but congrats him and that's it.But he continues with the play. He stares to my breasts, and flirts and make sexual insinuations that he never ever being like that before.What should I do?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 May 2008):
 He took your asking about his girlfriend as a sign of interest. What he said, in his own peculiar way, was that he wants to marry his girlfriend but wouldn't mind cheating on her with you.
If you want him to stop flirting, tell him you have noticed the stares and you understand his insinuations; that you don't like it at all, you want him to stop, and that, if he won't, you will tell his girlfriend.
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