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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been talking to this girl for almost a year now and I truly care for her. She means everything to me, but sometimes its really hard to communicate with her. She gets high and drinks sometimes, and when I talk its hard to understand what she is saying. But even when she is sober, there are times in the conversation where there is just silence and I dont even know what to say. Its like I dont know which person I will be talking too. We used to talk a lot online and always have good conversation, but now we only talk on the phone and it doesnt feel right sometimes. I just care about her so much and I dont know what to say. I dont know why I cant think of conversation, but then even sometimes when I do, she doesnt say much either. Other times she is so talkative and can talk for hours straight. Its just frsutrating not knowing what to say or really knowing how she will act that night. Reply to this Question
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reader, cherrisunni  +, writes (1 October 2009):
there are ties when there is going to be silence between you two. if the silence is not comfortable i suggest you two get to know more about each other thereby making it alot less awkward to remain silent when there is absolutely nothing left to say.meanwhile try letting her know how u feel about the communication between you twoand if you have a problem with her being high and drunk all the time i suggest you speak to her about that as welldont talk at her talk with her when there is nothing to talk about sing to heror write her some poetry and read it to heror maybe even a letter something sweet to spark a line of conversation between you twofind out where her interest lies so you wont have trouble finding a topicgood luck
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