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writes: i am 15 and my boyfriend is 16. me and my boyfriend had r first date a few days ago. we have been together for a week. on r date he asked me if i wanted to go somewhere to have sex wiv him. i didnt really answer and just sort of laughed it off. he didnt say anything more about it. we r still together and going on a date this weekend. do you think sex is all he cares about as he asked me on r first date?second question is, is sex all that boys want and care about when they r teenagers or do they have respect for girls aswell? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): I have some feelings for my girl but sex comes before everything else. Why should it not? Im too young for serious love and commitment and most fellas would agree on that, your making it sound like marriage! I know if my girl turned to me and said we have to stop having sex for a while to prove my love to her id be outa there! Plenty other fish in the sea. Andy
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Yes, hes a teenager and teenage guys have no concept of love unless your mom.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Bit hard to say, alot of teenagers want to experiment and see what its all about, some genuinely care, others do indeed just think about sex so they can go and brag to others! We are all different so you cannot put us all under the same umbrella, its called life finding out the good from the bad etc, and seeing who we trust and rely on, but, Remember, if your not ready dont do it, besides you are under the legal age presently, but dont be pressured into anything, if he really wants to be with you, he will wait, its called respect. If he cant respect you then you dont need him, and find someone that will be with you for you and respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): Is sex that all boys want at 16. Er, yes. Do you think they want to settle down for marriage or what? Probably one out of a hundred isn't, but for the majority, yes, all boys want at 16 is sex. Sorry, but that's brutal honesty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): This is a bit tricky. In a way it sounds like maybe he only wants you for sex because he asked you on the first date. If he is ok with you not wanting to right now though, that is a good sign. A guy who respects and cares for a girl WILL wait until she is ready.
Go on the date with him this weekend, if he tries anything on, or asks you for sex, tell him to back off because you want to wait before you have sex with him. If he keeps pressuring you and won't wait, dump him hun you can do a lot better!
It's hard to answer your question about all guys only wanting sex from girls. Some teenage guys do only want sex from girls, as they are not fully mature and grown up and see it as a laugh. However, there ARE some guys out there who will respect you, and not just want sex, and will wait until YOU are ready. It just depends what kind of guy he is.
The only way you'll find out if he's just using you for sex is when you refuse him and explain you want to wait. By his reactions, you will definitely know what it is he wants.
Take care, I wish you all the best
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