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writes:My girlfriend uses a wheelchair, but I've never cared cause she's awesome. Usually we just make out, but recently she told me she wants to have sex. Now here's the funny part: her disability leaves her vagina with no sensation. I asked her why she'd wouldn't get any pleasure and she said "it's not about the pleasure its about the concept"? What does that mean? Do girls like the IDEA of getting penetrated, even if there's no pleasure? Why does she want sex?
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 I think what she means is that she likes the idea of being intimate with you. Sex is probably the most intimate act two people can engage in, so it's natural for her to want to do that with you.
Perhaps she's feeling insecure, and thinks she is not able to please you they way other girls could. It's likely she wants to be able to give you that satisfaction by letting you have sex with her, even though she can't feel anything.
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reader, StevenRoss  +, writes (27 August 2008):
I kind of agree with the other post, she is probably thinking of you and the thought of you getting pleasure out of it may make her happy. Also, sex is more than just a physical thing and pleasure thing, its about two people being intimate, and loving and one with each other - she might like that side of it.
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