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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I feel like im going crazy. I dunno whats wrong with me. all i do is go to work, come home and smoke weed with my husband. we rarely have sex and im starting to get bored of the conversation,all we talk about is work or music. i am desperate for this to work. i do not want my marriage to fail. but i don't know where to start to get it better. i am in treatment for bullimia. i have been ill for 5 years and put my husband through alot (lies, hiding things,very low self esteem, mood swings) i feel like there has been so much destruction and so much said, that i don't know where to start. i wish we could forget what we have been (and still going) through and just want to spend time with eachother and have fun again. we are onnly 22 and we have been married a year. i cant loose what we have, heis my soulmate. but it feels like a can't be in the same room as him recently. i colud talk about this all day. i have no friends or family to talk to. its just me, bullimia and weed. how to i get it to just being me and my husband?????
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 hi hun, well you guys have obviously been a hell of alot more than any other couples your age, or couples any age! wat you have been through together is obviously going to take its toll and stress you both out, and because your still young, you may not have been ready to deal with this as a couple you know?
first of all, i think that maybe the two of you need to make an effort to stop the weed - its the kind of drug that can make you slip into a rut and 'bore' things. have you talked to your hubby about things? try and stop the weed and get out together more - your both still so young so try and go out and make new friends, have fun, and enjoy eachothers company again.
how come you dont have any girlfriends to talk to hun? email me if you want to, i'd be happy to be here for you when you need a friend. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): eeeee bulimia, ya i feel that. i suffer from that and anorexia, too, and it's tough stuff. So many lies, feeling like you can't trust anyone, and feeling you don't deserve to be trusted. It definitely compells you to isolate as well. Has your husband been supportive of you?
Perhaps you both together should also look to stop weed? By overcoming it together, perhaps that will bring you closer and in the end after all the treatments, things could be the way they once were..
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