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writes:HiI have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now, we are in love and i have moved in already and we have recently just had a nice holiday. We have a good healthy regular sex life, but its always me that starts it when we have sex, im always the one making the first moves. I want him to want me and for him to makes the first moves too and for it to not be me all the time! how do i do this? i have spoken to him about this but he just shruggs it off, he says he loves me and he fancys me so i dont see the problem?Help please .....
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Hi hun,wow - this actually sounds like me... I know how you feel... you just want your boy to be into you as much as you are into him. You always make the moves or take the initiative when he just waits for all good things to happen.. There are a few ways you can get this to turn around. Talk to him about it - tell him you need him to make an effort in the r.ship too because it takes two to tango! Explain to him that you would like - for once - that he actually made the moves first because you feel as though you are always the one to instigate.The other thing you can do is make him want you... wear something sexy, make him WANT you... tease him, and he WILL make the first move.Or the last thing you can do is spend some time apart, maybe he just needs some space... living together can be a bit hard, but also v. rewarding. Make him miss you in other words. So instead of chasing him around all the time - let him do the chasing, he wouldn't want to loose such an amazing girlfriend.Hope that helpsx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): dont have sex with him until he initiates it. he wont be able to last more than a few days.
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