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It's hard to be friends because we weren't friends prior to dating, now he acts as if we never even had a relationship!

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Question - (19 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *oftballplaya writes:

I have been boyfriend trouble. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up. i am very hurt since this happened tuesday, I know that us being 14 and all you cant really say it was love but We honestly were in love. now its gone. He acts now as if nothing bothers him, like everything we had and been through with each other never happened.

I sit at home crying because its hard to even be friends because we never had friendship, it was just dating. We became best freinds while dating, but now it feels wierd without him as my boyfriend and stuff.

I dont understand how someone can act like breaking up with someone you loved doesn't hurt. He never was the type to show his emotions to other people, he would rarely even tell me if something was wrong. What do you think

all answers apprecited, i odnt know how to deal with it like him

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A female reader, softballplaya United States +, writes (19 April 2008):

softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question

softballplaya agony auntthank you salvation

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2008):

He's probably putting on a brave face.

Leave him to it, back off and get over him.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2008):

He's probably putting on a brave face.

Leave him to it, back off and get over him.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2008):

hey i know its hard getting over someone and when its real love you never totally do but you have to try and move on try your best to be friends i think you should go out with some friends an have some fun get your life going again.

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