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writes:please help...its really hard for me to get out in this situation...i love the man and i would think that he did love me too. ive fallen for him, he courted me in a nice way, he usually send me message, call at home and in work, he fetch me, we ho out for a dinner, a date,im too impress, maybe ive fallen so much. untill one time we've done something, maybe wrong, i had given him all (my heart, my body and my soul)....yes we made love..im really scared of what we did but i feel no regrets coz i love him so much. But days passed by and things have changed, i dont know why it really get me sick of thinking why? does he dont love me anymore? did i done something,i actually asked these questions to him. He stop doing what he usually does before, he cant now even send me a message in a day of call me.. im really hurt, i actually asked why to him and he just answer he got no time, he's busy. Then after a conversation with this matter he would tend to say he's sorry but he still love me... i really dont know what to to.. but the moment that if im with him i really cant get off.. i love this guy so much...what should i do.. i think im so really numb and dumb?.. please help. what should i do.. im really hurt everytime i was ignored. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): Completely agree with uncle phill, the thrill was in the chase. Dont call him or question him etc just leave it, see how long it takes for him to contact you and when he does leave him to make arrangements to see you - and dont give him anything when you see him!
You are understandably hurt but you are worth more than that. Be aware that his chase may already have begun on someone new.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): It seems that all the fun was in the chase as far as he was concerned.
Once he'd got what he was after - your body - there was no more chasing to be done. having 'scored a goal' and getting another notch on his bedpost, his interest has disappeared.
It's no surprise that he went to such lengths to have sex with you, it's the sort of thing some men do, unfortunately, and they give the rest of us a bad name.
Play hard to get, and make him chase you again.
Phil
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (16 October 2007):
You said "i had given him all (my heart, my body and my soul)....yes we made love..im really scared of what we did..." Why are you scared? Did you tell him no more? Maybe he decided you were too high maintence.
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