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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend is acting suspicious, is she cheating on me?She tells me she is going to sleep at around 11 or 12 and we hang up, but when i log-in to facebook or myspace it says she is online. I have never said anything about this. But when we hang up at night she tells me to call her in the morning. When i do she doesnt pick up and the sound of her phone should wake her up easily. She is a light sleeper after all. All day her phone is either offor she doesnt answer. Then she will call me around 8 or 9 and say she was asleep all day because she couldnt sleep the night before. If I confront her about cheating she is very calm in saying no. But she does have a long record for cheating on guys. We have basically lived together for about 2 months and then she moved back home one day. The whole time she was here i had absolutely no suspicion. But the thing is home for her is in another city. She says she loves me and wants to be with me. And I really want to trust her but its getting hrder and harder. What should I do?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 October 2009):
So your evidence for cheating is that she's on the internet and she doesn't answer her phone when you think she should?
Well I find it quite hard to chat on facebook while having sex, so I don't quite get your logic.
As for answering her phone, she may well be in the shower and or having a big poo. Do you really want her to dash out and pick up her phone every time it rings?
If you are confused by her actions then calmly ask her why she hangs up on you and then talks to people online all night. Tell her you don't trust her because of her moving home etc.
Tell her you need a bit of reassurance because you are a little paranoid.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): She is acting like she isn't very interested in you.
Are you happy to be SERIOUS about someone who is prepared to ignore you so much and keep their phone switched off for long periods mysteriously.
I think she is seeing someone else as she is acting so off and you have your suspicions there.
I suggest that you end this relationship and find a woman who will be there for you who you are happier with.
You must feel you are living a lie and being treated like an idiot.
She is giving you the cold shoulder and maybe she likes your company but doesn't sound like the person for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): If she want to be with you why she move out? Did you guys finght or she just left for no reason? May be she couldn't sleep that why she's on online.I did that many times with my boyfriend. I talk to him 11 and I hand up I couldn't sleep and I just jump on the computer and chatting or watching YOu Tube. Its don't mean I cheat on him .He know I have friend in online my space, face book, netlog. He know, so I don't give him to reason to fight with me for that. You should trust her and try to get back together.If she really love you she will stay with you again. Good luck. don't think too much. She don't do nothing wrong.
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