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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've been having a crush on this guy. We always talk online or through text, but when it comes to school, he won't even say hi to me. We've watched movies together, with just us. The first time we went to watch a movie we we're in the movie theater and he would hold my hand and everything. Once we get outside the theater, we didn't hold hands. I thought it was okay for the first time, because we aren't together. Then after that, he still wouldn't say hi to me in school, but I tried to forget it. Then the second time we went out to watch another movie. We cuddled, hugged, and all those. Then he looks at me and dares me to kiss him. I get closer to his face and I almost kissed him, but then I turned my head to watch the movie. He turns my head back, and he kisses me. Then we started making out a little. It was the happiest day for me, but then the same incident happened again. We got outside the movie theater, and he wouldn't even hold my hand. I kept tugging on his jacket, so that he would hold my hand, but he pushed my hand away and said "what..?" I got depressed about it, and he kept asking me what was wrong. I asked him if he liked me and he told me to tell him first. So I admitted that I liked him and I asked him if he liked me too. Then he told me yes, but after that he still wouldn't hold my hand and I got depressed again. When he had to go, he wanted a hug from me and I told him no. He asked "Can I atleast get a bye?" and I said bye to him. Then he said "Fine, bye then.." and I stopped him, by tugging on his jacket again. He grabs my hand and tells me bye, then kisses me in public. I really want to be his girlfriend, but I'm waiting for him to ask me. It seems like he still doesn't want to be seen with me, and the only time we get intimate is when we're alone in the theater. I don't know what to do. My question is, Should I ask him out, or should I just wait for him to ask me? Maybe I should just ask him what our relationship is right now..? Thank you for all the advice!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 December 2010):
 Suggest your next date be something public, like dinner or a trip to the zoo, or a picnic in the park. That way you can see how he acts with you when the lights aren't out.
He likes you, but it's hard to say if he likes you for more than just a make out buddy.
There is no rule about asking a guy out. If you like him, then you should go for it. Make it official. Keep in mind that some people just don't like public displays of affection (PDA's). I know I hate kissing in public, so he may feel similar.
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