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30-35,
*adeHeart
writes:Ok so I have a classmate (we have all classes together) and I like him. A lot. and I thought he liked/like me too BUT I'm not so sure anymore..This has been going on for a year and in the meantime we've kinda become friends. At first there was a lot of staring and we had convos on msn (not really meaningful since he's kinda childish lol) and other classmates were starting to notice something was going on..And when he's alone with me he's a totally different person than when others, his personality goes from a "class clown" to indie kid or something.And he asked me to go to prom with him (we had to pick our dance partners). It's true I gave him some hints, but his friend wanted him to take some other girl and he asked me anyway. And then other classmates started making fun of us like we're a couple. We didn't talk about it.And then I sent him some kind of a love song on msn to show him how i feel and then went offline immediately. He answered with:"seriously?well this isn't really my type of music, this is better:"and he sent me a love song of different music genre saying how a girl cheated on a guy with his bf - it's true i got friendlier with his friend but just to get closer to him! Soon after that he got really sick and he had to go to the hospital. I didn't want to annoy him since I didn't know what he thinks. . Then he texted me saying sth funny about his illness and we texted all the time he was in the h. i also visited him.And the thing that bothers me is that he teases girls in class, except me! What's up with that?!There's this one girl in particular that bothers me-he always teases her in front of me, comments on her facebook status (sarcastic comments, but whatever), it happened that he made fun of her when she wasn't around, he treats her like a guy friend but STILL it makes me feel awful.For example he was sitting with some classmates and she came and sat down next to him (she's always trying to be around him). He stared at me the whole time. And then teased her in front of me. If he knows I like him, why is he doing all this? Staring stopped for a while but he started doing it again (sometimes i just look away), he's constantly texting me about school work (even though I'm like a C student), he gives me mixed signs (i had a love song as my personal message on MSN, and 3 days later he used it's lyrics "Can you meet me halfway?") and stuff like that.It's driving me CRAZY, what does he want from me/feels for me, what should i do?!HELP ME:(
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reader, samharbord2  +, writes (15 December 2009):
Hello jade,
If I was you i would keep giving him hints to know that you like him and maybee he will feel the same who knows and all thje girls in the class are just jealous ok sam :)
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