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writes:Last night me and a guy i,ve been dating ended up in bed while we were in the middle of having sex I thought he said " Love you " as i didnt hear it very well i asked him what did you say? and he said you me " am I hurting you "..I don't know wheter he really did say am I hurting you or Love you. I want to ask him but I don't know how Any Suggestion?
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (10 October 2011):
 Ok, my advice is don't ask him, just try to forget about it. Either he did ask am I hurting you, in which case it would be awkward if you ask did you say "love you".
Or he DID say "love you" in the heat of the moment, but when you asked him to repeat it he thought better of it and changed his line. In which case it will still be awkward if you bring it up again.
In the heat of the moment we can say things we wouldn't say everyday. If you want to know if he loves you my advice is, try not to put so much value on being "in love" and whether he loves you. Love is just a word to describe a whole multitude of difficult to describe feelings. It is very possible he is feeling these loving feelings for you, and they were so strong when you had sex that the words came out. But it can be a good thing to be cautious about saying these words, because with I love you, comes expectations.
Forget about it and just enjoy what you have right now. If it grows into something strong and enduring, great, but don't waste your time worrying whether it will or not. He will tell you he loves you when he is ready.
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