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Bladerade
writes:Okay, so I've dated a lot (no sex as of yet, not that that has anything to do with this article lol). But I just want to clear this one up. If there is a break-up, 9 times out of 10 its BOTH YOUR FAULTS! The one time out of ten, someone cheated on the other in that case it is only the cheaters fault. But number one on the list of reasons for breaking up is lack of communication. My friend has been complaining to me lately, that his girlfriend never calls anymore and when I say to him "well you bloody-well better call her then!" he says "well she should call me." And I bet you a similar conversation is going on with his girlfriend. And before you know it, days turn into weeks and if it gets really bad weeks turn into months and you're not even sure if you're dating anymore! It is both party's responsabilities to keep the relationship going. Next reason for break-ups, is that the "flare" is gone. Well love is a freaking fire people! And if you don't keep throwing wood (love poems, chocolates, presents, telephone calls, and sexual experiences) in there, then the fire is damn-well gonna go out! And if one party isn't throwing in their share of wood then its your job to cut down the whole-damned forest and keep that fire burning! Sorry guys, I just had to get that one off my chest, so next time you break up, it is BOTH your faults! thanks for reading!
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reader, oroberi  +, writes (19 May 2008):
But then there are times like now for me. Where I think, if I call her right now, it'll push her away further. No matter that I want to, that I need to hear her voice. No matter that I want to tell her all about how, I have listened to what she said, and took a good hard look at things, and understand her.
Calling now would just probably push her away, cause its only been about a day. No matter that I ache to call her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): You've made some good points there. It's easy to pass the blame, as often it's easier to see other's faults and not your own. But as they say, "take the plank out of your own eye, before attempting to take the speck out of anothers".
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