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writes:Hi, I've been dating this girl and we met early November. We went out a few times that month and slept together twice. She was very affectionate and so was I. It felt so good we had a few misunderstands nothing major. December she wasn't in town at all as she lives 2 hours outside mine but is here every weekend usually working. With the Xmas holidays she had to spend that with her family so we didn't see each other, we ended up not seeing each other at all last month. It's been just a little over a month that we last saw one another but have been sending messages. Xmas day and I sent her a message NYE but she never replied. I got concerned waited about 5 days for her to reply nothing so I sent another asking if she was ok as I hadn't heard from her. The next evening I got a reply from her it read "Hi, so sorry not had credit on my phone! It's good to hear from you, I'll be in town near the end of next week if you'd like to meet up? x"What do you think about this? I replied with "Hi, yeah we can meet up be nice to see you. Glad you're ok. x"I left it short and sweet. She didn't reply to that but I don't think there was anything in my message to reply to. What do you think about this? These messages we exchanged were on Friday evening and I haven't heard from her since. I'm really scared that she might just move on in the next few days and decide not to meet - it's been over a month that we didn't see each other. This is really a new relationship and we don't message each other as much like at the beginning. Do you think she's interested in me much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): If your able offer to meet her where she lives, help pay for gas, help pay for minutes, ext. It could be the cost to see you and she may not have much money. She might have been trying to tell you this when she said she ran out of minutes. Women love providers and deserve a man that will be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): Oh, I believe her totally, she has very little income and I've seen it happen to her more than once. I'm not sure about calling her I don't want to appear to keen again, I'm making a little distance here to see if she comes to me and maybe I can judge from this but I'm worried she might think I'm not so interested, ah catch 22... We have slept together but we tried to stop ourselves but couldn't. The first time we tried she told me that she was seeing another guy and that she wanted to speak with him to finish it she said it was more a moral thing than anything else. The next day she told me that she had finished with him. The next time we met up was a week later and we did sleep together. When she stayed the first night I offered to sleep on the floor and that she was welcome to the bed and told her I wanted to give her space. She kept asking me if I was sure that I wanted to sleep on the floor, I kept saying I was ok but she talked in a soft tone to come here so I did and then things went from there it was very intense. I hope we can find each other again when / if we meet again it really felt special and she's a nice person. I'm just worried that this time of just over a month may have been a little long and she may have forgotten what we had / lost the feeling so to speak. I did notice the messages are less but the Xmas holiday I guess didn't help because she had to go to more than one city to visit family. I really miss her!Thanks for your help, if you have any further advice then please let me know. Best Regards
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