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writes:I am so in love with this guy..and have been for agesi cant stop thinking about him ..evrything reminds me of him! i try and move on.. i try and forget him but it doesnt work! hes a guy from school and evryday i snob him and try not to stare at him..but he knows i like him.. and evryday he always runs up to me and says hi...and plays lil rude games with me!if he knows i like him why does he do this? does he like me back?or is he just being an asshole trying to tease mewhat pisses me off even more is that him and his girlfrend kiss infront of me at skoool! he knows i h8 it..but then he somehow always manages to ge me back to liking him even after evrything he does...i lik him so much but im mad cause i cant have him!what should i do? move on..? orr.......
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reader, Supergirl  +, writes (30 March 2007):
hey hunny.
Right i can talk to you as if i was the 'girlfriend' in your story because the same thing is going on around me too.
My best friend Matt is in love with my other best friend Harry.
Me and Harry are totally in love with each other but Matt doesn't know this.
Me and Harry cant date etc beacuse we dont want to hurt Matt, But when Matt comes running up to me with his beautiful smile telling me he got to spend an hour sat next to Harry in art and how happy he was to be able to be that close t him makes me feel so bad.
He always asks me if there is a chance of him and Harry ever getting together but im too scared to break his precious little heart to say 'no, beacuse he is in love with me' so i just say i dunno Matt.
I'm being a complete bitch to Matt as i fell for Harry After Matt told us both of his feelings for him.
I have started to tell Matt he needs to move on so he doesnt get more hurt by thinking there could be a chance and him and Harry.
And im gonna say them same to you, Move on please hunny. He obviously likes this girl and i dont want you getting hurt like me and Harry are hurting Matt.
Find someone that loves you back, someone good enough for you, i know Matt desereves better than me and Harry and so do you.
xxxxx
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reader, StellaBaby83  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Um...hun this guy sounds like a jerk. What are you doing?? There's plenty of great guys out there and you want someone thats not going to lead you along like a puppet. It sounds like he's playing games with you, and even if he's not...he's got a girlfriend. Would you want a boyfriend that acts like he does when you're not around.
He's not capable of making you like him, it's only you that can do that.
So, pick yourself hunny and stare spending your energy elsewhere coz this guy is a waste of time......
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reader, chelychel  +, writes (29 March 2007):
Oh my, Ive been in this situation before. For me, the guy used me liking him as an ego boost. He kept coming around me and I would swoon all over him and make him feel good about himself, then he would go talk to other girls. It was heartbreaking...but I eventually got over him. This may be what your guy is doing, or not, just something to think about.
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reader, thor +, writes (29 March 2007):
 if he has a gf move on. he is winding you up and teasing you. you should find someone decent and single.
thor
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