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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey when I was 18 I met this guy via facebook,he is an actor anywys I was excited he were working for us,and we really talked a lot like hours n hours everyday and then he decided to come visit me,we spoke and we made out(he was my first kiss)so a lot of emotions attached!!but after meeting him I realised he's very conceited its always about HIM!I don't even think he was looking for a relationship,then eventually we fell out of touch,about 3 years ago he called me randomly and we spoke that's it..then I changed my number and I didnt give it to him cuz when I wished him on his bday he just said thanks and dint even ask how I am..so lately I don't know why I'v been thinking about him a lot and I don't know if I should talk to him,he's on my 'whatsapp'but I'm not on his,cuz he doesn't have a number..I don't know what to say tho?after 3 years!!he was my first kiss I can never ever forget him!!what do I do,should I talk to him?or not??or would he think I'm creepy for still thinking about him after 3 years!!please tell me what to do!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer misstellall..I can't get myself to stop watching his show,since its one of the popular shows on TV all my friends watch it and I watch it with them too and when they praise him,or say things like I think he's dating that girl,it kills me inside cause at one point he told me loved me..UGH but I'l try and do what you asked me to:) thanks
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reader, MissTellAll  +, writes (7 August 2012):
 You seem to have come to terms with the fact that he is nowhere near as attached to you as you are to him. The problem is using that to your advantage.
Don't watch his show, don't call him or text him, just let it all go. The past is the past and the more you dwell on this the less time you can spend looking for a guy who will actually treat you right
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow can he reconnect with me??when he doesn't have my phone number I changed my number and dint give him:( he doesn't have my email neither am I on any social networking sitee:( :( I don't know lately he is doing this new show on television and all the memories came jogging by!!and I started thinking about him again:( I know he doesn't care about me as much may be was never looking for a relationship but why do I care soo much,why do I want to talk to him again*part of me thinks* may be he'l see me in a different way this time..I don't know what to do:(
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (7 August 2012):
You say he is conceited and always about himself, but still consider talking to him?
In my opinion the best thing to do would be to just let him go. Remember him as your first kiss and that's it- maybe making sure to pick better guys for kissing next time.
I would delete his number if I were you. Just cut all strings and if he wants to reconnect someday, then so be it but for now just let it go.
Hope this helped.
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