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writes: Don't get me wrong, I love having sex with my long term boyfriend, it's just simply amazing, but we end up having it every day. We usually have it for about 2 or 3 hours as well, so not only do I get tired but my lower region does too.Also, he thinks that as soon as he gets an erection (which sometimes he already has one) then it's time to penetrate me. But it hurts because I'm dry, and it can even split the condom. He doesn't realise, but I just can't bring myself to tell him. I really want more foreplay, because otherwise we're gonna end up in serious trouble one day when he ejaculates, not realising the condom has split.What can I do, to be able to go round his house one night and not feel oblidged to be sexual? I don't have a lot of money, so we can't go out all the time... Also, how can I encourage foreplay? Thanks :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): we it seems to me he only really wants one thing.speak to him about it see if he understands where your coming from
if he dont take any notice then you no what hes all about dont you.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 You say you can't bring yourself to tell him, but don't you think you will have wished you told him, after he gets you pregnant? I'm not saying he will, but in not telling him, you are taking a risk!
Think of the benefits in telling him! There are plenty, so why are you hesitant to talk to him? Do you think he will react badly, or angrily? If he reacts badly to you (that's: You, whom he is suppose to be trying to give as much pleasure to as he can) then he is both foolish and selfish, and I would certainly suggest finding somebody who will do anything he can to make Sex better for you as a partner. I'm sure you are happy with him overall, but still, I would like to think he would take onboard what you say, because in In telling him, you are giving him the opportunity to have better and safer sex for BOTH of you. And who could object to that?
Please talk to him! There's no reason for you to be getting tired of Sex already. Why wait any longer to improve it?
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