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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My friend (who is a boy), recently asked me out, I said no, because at the time I didn't like him. I now really like him, problem is he asked out another girl two days after asking me. He's still really nice to me, tries to help me and all that, but I don't know whether to tell him or not? Can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 It's a woman's right to change her mind, but even if you change your answer, it doesn't negate your past answers. Sometimes, we lose opportunities that we later wish we had taken advantage of.
But I'm a little concerned about the timing here. You didn't like him just a few days ago, and now you like him and want to date him just two days later when he's asked someone else out? Are you sure you like HIM and not just the attention he was paying to you?
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reader, Odds +, writes (27 December 2010):
 It's everyone's right to change their mind - and, it's everyone's right not to put up with other people's choices. Telling him you like him now would only mess up his current relationship. You missed your chance, I'm sorry.
Would it be accurate to say you started liking him right when you found out he was seeing a new girl? Many girls are more attracted to guys in relationships. They like what other girls like. If that's the case, your feelings for him are based on that, not on anything about him in particular. It's transitory infautation, not care. Try to get past them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): Tell him you changed your mind.
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