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writes:So I just recently went on this amazing date with this amazing woman. She was in town for a week for my cousin's wedding and was one of the guests. When she was going to be leaving a few days later she said we should do lunch. Obviously I jumped at that opportunity because I like her a lot and wanted to spend more time with her but didn't have the balls to ask her out, so I quickly scheduled one with her. She wanted to invite my sister but she was busy. She has this cute, quirky, funny and innocent personality to her, which always grabs my attention. When it was time for our "date" we were supposed to only spend a few hours in the day together, but we ended up spending a majority of the day together. I showed her around the city and all the important sights, I tried my best to be the best guide as possible as I wanted her to have the best possible time. We took many memorable pics together and she took a few selfies with me. And towards the end she wanted to have dinner with me and I couldn't say no or wanted to. I wanted to spend as much time as possible with her. When we were done dinner and it was time for me to go, I was kind of sad because I knew that I would possibly never see her again just because she lives so far away. We hugged and I said a few things like "I'll miss you" and then I left. She said let's keep in touch via text and phone.So I have a few questions:what should I talk about with her over the phone? I'm not very text savy and always have trouble starting up conversations or making small talk via text. I'm always the person who only texts if there's an answer I need to a question. And what should I do to get her more interested in me? I wanted to text her when she went back home was yesterday but I don't want to annoy her with texting too much. And from what I told in the story do you think she feels anything for me or just sees me as a friend? I've met a few women who had that kind of sweetness and kindness to me in them and always thought that I was nothing more then just a friend. So obviously my receiver from signals is pretty defective.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Code Warrior
I really like your outlook on things. But unfortunately I have the personality and the look of a potato. But I'm always smiling when I'm on a date. Whenever I try to act funny or tell a joke it comes off as awkward and rather boring. So I've learned to go away from that. I guess it just takes practice.
My confidence has been pretty shaken with a terrible breakup and a swathe of bad dates. I know I shouldn't let those past experiences haunt me but those things are always at the back of my head.
We talked a lot about schools, our families, what she does, she even told me some of her exes. She also talked about family and the wedding and what we'll do when we get married. She opened up to me a lot more and talked a lot about her life.
It's really hard to understand her feelings through text. I mean on one hand she takes forever to respond to texts, but she's incredibly busy with work so I can understand that and the time difference makes it hard. But then she responds with a sweetness and kindness that it makes it hard for me to actually knows what she feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Code Warrior
Great response. I was thinking the same thing that she might be attracted to me slightly but was holding back a bit just because of the whole LDR thing. One positive thing was that when we were taking pics she was never opposed when I touching her shoulder or arms but I guess most people aren't when taking pics. And she would want to take a ton of selfies with me. I did make a few comments of her being gorgeous and all and that she looked pretty during the wedding, but I didn't see her reaction. She also smiled with her eyes a lot which I thought was pretty cute.
It's really hard to compliment a woman that knows she's gorgeous and pretty. And her personality is pretty amazing too.
So what other stuff should I text her about?
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