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writes:I was seeing a guy for almost two years, I am 25 he is 29, and it was always a rocky relationship. We were crazy about each other and had such passion, but we couldnt seem to make it work - he says he couldnt trust me and for that reason he kept breaking up with me (7 times). We would always get back together but this time he has ended it for good and I am devastated (it ended just over three months ago). I never was unfaithful and I never would have been, but I was dishonest about some things (men) in my past as I didnt want to tell him everything - the reason he now doesnt trust me. I have nothing to hide, I just didnt feel comfortable talking to him about it, and the more I told him the more insecure he became and the more we fought. He had just finished a five year relationship and we were together straight away. I really want him back as I think we had something great - what do I do? He wont even talk to me know - I have taken the break up really badly and have acted awfully and said some awful things, because it has destroyed me. He has said that he just doesnt want it anymore, but I dont know if that is anyone, or just me, I know he isnt with anyone else. I really love him and miss him. Any suggestions on what to do when we dont even speak now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): Is he taking me for a ride?He shares all his problems with me,tells all his future plans,involves me in his projects and says he wants us to get married on the other hand he is seeing these other women and of late he communicates with me once in a while like after a week or two.
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reader, malica  +, writes (19 February 2007):
ok i understand that but u should make him trust u u should tell him that give me a another chance.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (19 February 2007):
 It sounds like he is very insecure and distrustful of you, and maybe of women in general. If you get him back, how will that change? I would suggest counseling for both of you. His lack of trust needs to be addressed or you're going to continue to fight and have problems. . . if he agrees to get back with you.
If he will talk to you, explain to him that you don't want to lose him and that you would like to go to joint conseling with him to see if the two of you can work out your issues.
If he is unwilling to seek counseling with you, I suggest you move on.
Good luck!
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