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writes: Dear Cupid, we have broken up because my girlfriend has got annoyed because I have told the guy ex boyfriend that she is my girlfriend and the guy rung the girl and told her what I had told him. She rung me and said I had made a big mistake telling him because she never wanted him to feel bad. So what should I do to get her back, because she is really annoyed. I love this girl and I don't want her to go like that. Anyone to help me please.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (22 June 2006):
Hey Babe
Well i have to say here again Dr.pete is spot on here as he usually is lol... i think ur g/f is outta order here. she has over reacted big time. why is she putting her ex's feelings above yours? why shouldn't you tell him she's ur girlfriend? is she still holding a torch for her ex, his feelings should be the last thing on her mind? you need to sit her down have a chat with her babe tell her how this has made you feel tell ask her the above questions tell her that her ex should be in the past she should be more concerned with how your feeling rather than putting her ex's feelings first.
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): Hang on a minute... you told her ex boyfriend that you were going out with his ex girlfriend? And she dumped you for it?
I can understand that she might be uncomfortable telling him, but, you are supposed to be more important than he is. What was she going to do? Never tell him? I don't think that's very fair on you or her ex-boyfriend.
If she told you not to tell him, perhaps you shouldn't have. But, your girlfriend has over-reacted on this matter. She has put his feelings before your own. She might be annoyed, but if I were you, I'd be annoyed too.
Hopefully if you give it some time, this girl will come to her senses.
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