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reader, jonesen62 +, writes (19 September 2006):
My husband and I have been married for 8years we have a 4year old daughter, but i have suspected he was gay for several years never caught him into anything, I think back to the first time we made love his penis wouldn't get up and he'd told me he would cut it out if it wouldn't work. i was a bit puzzle by his remark in the nine years i've know him he's never had an affair. only strange guy friends he always angry when i ask if he's gay, and want to act voilently and I just don't know what to do it's alway in my mind he's gay but he won't admit it and I wondering if I'm crazy but we can go weeks without sex and he's ok and never showers at home last week he watch a top model marathon with me for 5 hours help me plsss someone is he gay or nots
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 June 2006):
 Is his sock drawer organized and does he do it himself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): well funnily enough, one of my boyfriends was gay. He didnt tell me, but i figured it out for myself. He was using me, so that his parents wouldnt find out cos they are homophoebic. But one night, we were in bed and he was watching a film, I was almost asleep, and he mush have thought that i was asleep, just when a good lucking guy came on the scene with his shirt off, and my "bf" started playing with himself. He was the only person on the scene and at first i felt gutted, but i managed 2 convince myself that i was going mad, which i shouldnt have done, but i did do. when he broke up with me, he just said, "it isnt you, its me". and he never gave me a proper reason why he finished with me. after we split up, a male friend confessed that before he went out with me, my ex felt him up when they were havin a group sleepover. he though the male friend was asleep, but he wasnt. he was scared to tell me at the time.
If ANYTHING has gone off like this, or if you see him checking males out, I'd be worried, and i would ask him, but if nothing has gave you the reason to wonder, i wouldnt worry too much xx
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reader, camille  +, writes (22 June 2006):
 It sounds like you suspect he may be gay, so perhaps listing some of your clues and then asking advice may help. To be honest, we could list several things but none of them could mean he's gay. In fact, some of the clues may point to other problems such as infidelity, depression, insecurity etc, so best to elaborate your fears....
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reader, Smiler +, writes (22 June 2006):
 Hey Honey
Well to be honest its like the other aunts have said if he's checking out men when your out together or searching for them on the internet then you have some problems sit down and have a good heart to heart about this don't bottle this up it will only get harder :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (22 June 2006):
 I dont think there are any definate signs to speak off... Unless you catch him checking out men, or looking them up on the internet then I wouldnt really know how you could tell. Men that are married and are actually gay, go out of thier way to hide it, so I dont think they would intentially give it away so if he is gay, then I think it would be very hard to spot!! IS there a reason that you suspect him of being gay ? Has he suddenly lost interest in the bedroom ? Is he hanging out with men that he never used to before ? What makes you ask the question as you must have an incling of something thats a miss ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): Hahaha... That's pretty obvious eh? 8]
Well aside from what HBF said... No, that's about it. 8]
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (22 June 2006):
 He fancies men?
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