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writes: my guy and I just got together a few months ago he took care of his mother all his life and turned to porn for relief, I had a terrible loveless marriage which i got out of i love my guy very much but it seems he can only cum with porn and takes a long time doing so am i at fault is there something wrong with me that he cant cum with me please advise we are 45 and47
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (18 November 2007):
No, there is nothing wrong with you for sure.
I have seen this many times before.
It seems that when a man turns down porn street the problem grows in that it seems to take more and more to get them to satisfaction. If the porn addiction (which is what it has become by this time) is not stopped it can ruin relationships and even lead to further problems later.
A quote from an article I am giving you the link to follows:
"Pornography promotes the allure of adultery, prostitution and unreal expectations that can result in dangerous promiscuous behavior."
The article should give you some insite on the bad effects that porn can have. I hope it helps. Doc.
http://www.filterguide.com/harmful.htm
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Hi
If he looked after his mom all his life, I would suggest issues around woman to be honest with you. I went out with a guy years ago that had a similar problem. He could only come by masturbation and he blamed his over dominant mom for it. Not sure why .. but a thought?
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