A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been single for two years and when I split up with my ex, three months later I met James. He was my first one night stand...this was two years ago and I last slept with him last weekend. We don't meet up regularly he often texts me and I say I'll meet him and then I don't end up doing. Probably see each other once every two months or something and it usually always results in me stopping at his house.The thing what really confuses me is that everytime I see him he's nicer to me. The first time i slept with he was nasty to me and I know I only slept with him then because I was vunerable after splitting with my ex. Everytime I see him its like he grows nicer. Take last weekend for instance he paid double fare for a taxi to get to my house... he has never paid for anything. He stops and stays the whole day after- again this is unlike him. The next night I was meant to be going to his but I went out so the day after he asked me to stop his and his mum was there- he never invites me over when his mum is there. Another thing is often in the past when we slept together he wouldn't cuddle me before or after....now he does?I really can't work this guy out because after the weekend I texted him asking what he was doing and I never got no response so I just left it and didn't chase him.Does people think it's worth waiting for him? I just don't want to carry this on for another two years and me ending up really liking him and then he finds someone else.... I like him now but I know what he's like so I just keep my options open.And how do people think I should act with this guy, do i need to stop sleeping with him even though I don't want to as for at this moment in time it suits me fine?
View related questions:
my ex, one night stand, split up, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 April 2010):
You're a FWB, and that's it. I'm not sure you want this, so I think you'd be better off moving on now. He's not made any move to get closer to you. But he makes all the moves to get you into bed. Find yourself a good boyfriend.
|
