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female
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30-35,
*imipinford
writes:hi... am really in need for some advice ...have slept with my b/f who is 23 years older then me and actually enjoyed it but since then he is forcing me to move in with him ....when he first asked.. i asked him to give me some time but he is forcing the issue ....he has started to pick me up from work every afternoon and wants to have sex before he leaves about 11pm and he doesnt want to use any condoms because he told me that he wants to try for a baby with me as he already has 3 sons from his first marriage ....he calls me and drops by my office so that we have lunch.on monday i went to have lunch with some of my workmates and he got angry .....am very scared by seeing him been so possesive.i was thinking that i should tell him that i am not ready to have a baby and that if he wants to have sex then he has to use a condom but am scared of what he might do ...after seeing him like this i dont want to move in with him...pls help me out....
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reader, karen1989  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 I think you should end this then cut all ties with him..he sounds very intimidating, and controlling. your young you should be enjoying yourself rather than getting involved with people that just bring stress into your life. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): Get away from him as soon as you can. Nothing but sorrow is coming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): This is all too much. This man hasn't enough respect for what YOU want. Don't allow yourself to be forced into anything. I would back off altogether.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 July 2010):
End it NOW. This guy is seriously unstable. He is possessive, he's forcing you to move in, he's trying to make you have a baby. At 23, he's already had a marriage and 3 children, and has left them all. You need to end it with him now. No if's, no buts. End it.
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