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It seems like my father hates me, what should I do?

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Question - (25 May 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A age 30-35, * writes:

My parent's divorced when i was around 2, and my mom remarried to a WONDERFUL man, who treated me as I was his own. My step father died when I was 11, and it was really dramatic for me, and i went through alot of pain and suffering from it. Every summer I would visit my real dad, however most times-there would be an argument over childsupport and what not..which prevented me to see him.

Its been years since I've seen my real father, he came down for my highschool graduation, and I haven't seen him since (I am about to graduate college), I talk to his side of the family all the time, and they have asked about what if me and my fiance came to live down there. I thought what a wonderful idea.

They are still my family, and I want to get to know them, and be with them! Ya know? (plus I hate this town I live in now)

Although my real dad's side of the family calls and comunicate with me on a daily basis, my dad doesn't. I call him from time to time, never get an answer. I try talking to him on facebook...and I don't get an answer back. His family said hes just really busy, but..i don't understand why he can't use the time to call me, during the time he leaves facebook status's.

I have a tattoo on my wrist, that says "daddy" with a halo, and i tried to hide it from him, so it doesn't hurt his feelings, but he found out anyway 3 years ago, and said he was disappointed in me.(could that still be bothering him?)

After many years when I was younger, he has begged for me to live there, and now- I'm about too..and he doesn't seem interested.

What should I do? I don't want to live down there, if its going to be awkward...or depressing b/c the only father i have left, won't give me a time of day!

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