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writes:Hey everyone! Me and my gf have been together for nearly 2 yrs now, we broke up for 4 months and only got back together a couple months ago..She was the one to leave before and now it seems that i have the power, but im not greedy or i don't take things for granted..She is always trying to tell me that she will never leave me again, that she made a mistake leaving me and that she will always try her hardest to make things work this time..It seems different now, her attitude is the same but just seems like she is letting me have control in a way..There is just something about her now that makes me think she is not the same in a bad way but i dont know what it is, she still is the same, she is perfect in everyway but it just seems there is something i dont know about her?? Can somebody please help me out because it is eating me away and i always feel down...
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reader, itsyou +, writes (7 April 2008):
sounds like you should move on. thats what happened to me and my ex. its not love anymore is just because you are used to her that's why you dont want to let her go.its more like an obsession. just try move on before you get more hurt. i know its hard but its the best thing to do. i speak from experience :) if not take a break and start seeing someone else without thinking about her and u'll c that its not love. hope u'll take my advice peace and god bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): You leave a huge hole to fill. It depends on what took place between you, why she left in the first place.
If she is unwilling to talk about it, share her feelings so you know her better as an individual, and how she ticks, know her weak points that you can pick up the slak, then troubles will continue, but the affect on you will or can, make you become resentful towards her.
You both need to express deeper feelings, otherwise, this surface communication will eventually end the relationship, and you will be hurt because you permitted it to go to far without an honest answer from her.
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