A
female
age
30-35,
*oreverlove
writes:I've fancied my best mate for ages! But the thing is is hes told me he is gay but is unsure if he defiantly is. I'd do anything for him and he would the sane to me. We have days together where we just spend time with each other, we cuddle up on the sofa. We met 3 years ago at my church and he refused to do work last week as I wasn't there. I love him to bit and will always be there for him!How do I get over this I feel like we are too close now to have anything more. We have planned to move in with each other. It is like we are going out but we aren't. This is really hard for me but I love it. How can I get over this or just help me to stay on top of my feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): If he's gay, he's gay, and because you're a female, he isn't sexually interested in you. The best way to get over it is to perhaps hang out with him a little less. If you're inseparable right now, it makes dealing with things like this much, much more difficult. Accept that he's gay and make some new friends to help you ease your strong feelings in this situation. You can continue being best friends with him, you can be roommates with him, but you have to accept that you are not dating.
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