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It hurts when I masturbate

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Question - (16 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey everybody!

I'm almost 23 years old and STILL a virgin! Anyway my problem is that I do enjoy masturbating a lot, and I only give myself clitoral orgasms. However, whenever I try fingering myself it just hurts so i have to stop. I was just wondering what I could do to make it easier and to make it not hurt? I really want to make sure I am physically prepared for sex. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009):

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Thank you for the great advice guys! However, when I do try fingering, it is always AFTER I have had an orgasm, and STILL hurts. Why?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009):

Hi,

Clitoral masturbation is the only way of maturbating for you as a virgin. But this doesn't mean that you wil not get the same pleasure of having a penis in your vagina. If you do it well, i am sure, you will get more satisfied by touching your clitoris.

Just try to prepare all your body before masturbation. Do not only get busy with your clitoris. Touch your nipples, your asshole etc... You will see that you will have more satisfaction. Sex is related with all your body ;)

Enjoy your body...

TUNC

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