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*lare123
writes:i want to know if my ex has/can change or will he hurt me again!without going into too much detail (would be an essay otherwise). we went out for a year he broke my heart and went out with someone else for 6 months ( he had cheated on me with her).6 months ago he broke up with her and around 3 months ago out of random circumstances of friends social gathering we became friends again and then starting sleeping together and then seeing each other about 2 weeks ago.I really didn't want to get back with him because of the way he treated me and cheated on me, but i couldn't stop myself because we get on so well and still have a strong emotional and physical attraction. at first i kept it as sex even when he told me he loved me and made the biggest mistake of his life and would do anything for me. 3 months later we are together, but iv said i dnt want everyone to know yet because I know my family wouldn't be happy because of the way he cheated on me. He says hes changed because hes grown up ( hes only 20) and because he saw his mums bf recently cheat on her and leave her, he saw the effects and he is so sorry and would never be that person again!anyway i want to know peoples views do you think he has changed his ways and wont hurt me again?? or is it once a cheater always a cheater even though I know we will always have something there???please help im worried if i end it im loosing something amazing but if i stay with him im worried he'll cheat again???Thanks guys xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): omg its like ur living my life 5 years ago i am still with my boyfriend were going on six years and he cheated on me our first year together and we got back togeher and this went on for 4 years he went back to this slut every time and i use that word very lightly anyways he said the sweetest nicest things to me and thats y i took him back because i thought he realy did change but now looking back hes changed slightly but hear i am six years later and i still dont kno if we'll work out or if hes changed at all so my advice would be save yourself the heartache and move on no matter how bad it may hurt because ur probibly saving yourslef from being in a world of pain. best of luck to you n whatever u decide hope u find true love.
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