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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I masturbate on occasion. But I've never had an orgasm. It physically hurts after a certain point before I get there so I have to stop. I'll still be wet and everything but like I can't keep going. It hurts.Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): I'm not sure there's any such thing as "normal".But I do know a lot of women get highly sensitive as they approach orgasm - and sometimes this can feel over-intense, even painful. It probably means you just have particularly sensitive nerve endings!Something you might try is bringing yourself to the point just before it starts to get too much for you, when the climax just begins to build - then stop for a moment, keep the sexy thoughts in your head, but let the sensitivity subside for a few moments - concentrate on your brething and let yourself calm down a little before continuing - then repeat. Don't worry if you don't reach orgasm at first - just enjoy the sensation (it is better to travel than to arrive after all!) - you'll probably find you can keep going a little further each time, and this should mean you can enjoy masturbating over a ong period of time even if you don't necessarily reach a climatic orgasm (which is over-rated anyway, as any man will tell you!), you should be able to "ride the waves" so to speak and enjoy yourself anyway.
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