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writes: Quick question! Me and my bf both work fulltime, him sometimes 12 hr shifts me 8 till 5 every weekday! we both generally get the weekends off. I dont have a problem with him going out with his mates on the weekends but sometimes it gets to me that he doesnt seem to want to go out with me. We had a row on Saturday because of this, with me ending up saying that I was not prepared to be his woman, who cooks, cleans and everything else for him, just to be ditched onthe weekend. Is this really unreasonable? I would never stop him doing anything, for example he is off on hols with the boys to Ibiza in the summer. But I would occasionally like to be the one he asks, fancy a couple of pints! xxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, tracy1 +, writes (16 May 2006):
Im sad to say that I do agree with whatever Anja said. My ex leaves me out whenever he goes with his mate but when he wants a drink, he'll tag me along so tat I could pay for his drinks! In the beginning, I told myself its just temp but later after a yr, he still did the same. I ditched him after multiple rows and makeups.
Dont ignore things if it doesnt seem right. He might not be ready to even commit into the relationship 100%.
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reader, Anja +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Yea I agree. You are not someone to be used when he wants you for something. You have been very reasonable with him, more then resonable and fair. He needs to spend quality time with you,going out for the odd drink, dinner or flicks...whatever. Sounds like he is taking you for granted, you have explained to him how you feel, it's up to him. If he is serious about the realtionship then he would agree to come to a fair compromise and take you out form time to time. If he is not serious (could be the case here I'm afraid) then as long as he's got someone who can be there to cook, clean etc then he's ok jack....but what about you ??!!!
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