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writes: My girlfriend asked me to change my display picture on msn tonight. I was going through pictures to choose from and was looking in what was a cache of display pictures other friends have used and I know she doesn't know computers can do that. I normally keep my msn online when I sleep. but anyways, I was looking through them and noticed a picture of her exposed breasts in there and was recently used as her display picture by the date stamped on the cache. This was a picture I have never seen or have received from her. Should I be concerned that she has her eyes set elsewhere and is talking to someone else online in more than a friendly manner?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 There maybe an innocent explanation but you can only find out if you ask her directly about it. It is surely a sign that something is wrong in your relationship. What I mean by this is that if she is spending time in chatrooms etc talking to complete strangers, and showing her bits (if she is of course) then it is a sign that perhaps she is looking for attention and there are communication issues in your own relationship. It doesn't always mean she is cheating, and she might not even see sending such images as 'cheating' so you need to have a full and frank conversation with her, and perhaps lock up the computer for a while!
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reader, joanna44 +, writes (15 May 2006):
 i think you should confront her and see what she has to say, if your still not satisfied then do a bit of reserch yourself and go on her msn and talk to the people on their and ask them, it does seem a bit odd but there could be a simple explination.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (15 May 2006):
 It does seem a bit odd. I mean, I don't know why you would do that for anyone else but your partner.
I think that you need to ask her about it, there may be an innocent explanation but if you don't ask you will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out and that will only lead to confusion and jealousy and mistrust etc.
The best thing to do is to ask her and see what she says - say "I found this, is this a surprise for me, no wonder you asked me to change my screensaver" etc, nice and light and see what she says.
You will know from her expression and answer if she is telling the truth or not.
It is better to know either way isn't it?
Good luck
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