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It felt as though I was having a bowel movement at the end of anal sex. How can I avoid this feeling?

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Question - (15 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2009)
A female New Zealand age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a question regarding anal sex - I have done this once with my boyfriend, but was fairly uncomfortable at the end, because when he was pulling out it FELT like I was having a bowel movement! Obviously I wasn't, but this makes me hesitant to do it again! Is it possible to have a bowel movement as the penis is being pulled back out?

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A female reader, megan1111 United States +, writes (16 January 2009):

Haven't experience anal yet (see my posting 1/15/09) but I understand if he cums in you or if you use a lot of lube, what goes up must come down so this feeling is natural.

If not, I need to know.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008):

Yes. When he completely withdraws, some shit may follow, as if drawn out by the vacuum pump action of the penis. Never happened in my personal experience but know of someone it has happened to, seen it on a porn vid too. An unusual occurrence but certainly not unheard of and if you have an open, relaxed relationship with your b/f, nothing to be ashamed of so long as you're both prepared for and aware of the possibility.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008):

I've never done this myself as it seems unnatural to me, but common sense tells me that those sensations are quite normal because something turd-sized is leaving your backside in the same manner as if you were taking a dump!

The only suggestion I've got is to make sure you've been to the toilet before engaging in anal sex, then you'll feel more at ease that there's nothing up there that's going to follow his penis when he pulls it out.

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