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anonymous
writes:Hey there everybody.I got a bit of a problem.I dont know what to do about one guy I like and one guy I love.Okay,I like this one guy he's:a year younger than me,sweet,nice,likes to be a pimp sometimes,can get any girl at the snap of the finger,and is my boyfriend.But then the other guy I like is: my age,sweet,smart,always knows how to make me laugh when I'm sad,we stick by eachothers sides,is a bit shy buut stands up for me no matter who it is,(even his mom!!)and...I love him.(I'm not even jokin I do soooo much.I never felt the way for him as I do any other person I know)Now the reason I'm not with him is becasue his mom isn't quite fond of me(She HATES it if I hang out with him or talk to him and hates me so she BARELY lets us see eachother outside of school cus she thinks I make him sad when I'M the one that cheers him up!!),but he knows that I love him and I only know that he likes me.He said he'll tell me what he has to say about the whole "love" thing when he gets back in school. (He was kicked out of school for a while.)But he said he'll NEVER tell me on the phone.Back to the problem:It feels wrong to kiss the guy I'm dating.I always think of the other guy but I know I could NEVER go out with him cus of his mom.How do I choose between love I can never have and like that makes me feel guilty??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): ah thats great hun! good luck in the future.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, he (the other guy) Said he loves me!! He told me about a week ago and we've been do'n fine.I broke up with my boyfriend and now he goes out with my friend o end the end we all ended up LOVED!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Heya hun, ok I have been in the completely same position as you appart from i wasnt hated by the guy i loved mum. Though it did feel wrong to kiss my boyfriend. Ok so the guy ur goin out with you said was sweet, nice and good looking.Though you have strong feelings for this other boy. Well at the end of the day you must of had feelings for your boyfriend once because after all you do go out with him! And it sounds like to me this other boy is messing you around a bit because he wont tell you how he feels, and if he loved you aswell, surely he couldnt wait to tell you? So that kind of hints that maybe he doesnt feel the same way about you and is scared to tell you or he is scared of his mum so he simply cant love you even if he wanted to. Because just think if you dumped your boyfriend and went out with this other boy it may not last long because of his mum! So hun i say stick with your boyfriend because you can guarantee he cares for you and loves you.Ok mail me if you ever want to talktake carexxx
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