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writes:Ok this is probably going to be a long story.So Like a year ago I was going out with this girl she's in the 10th grade now and I'm in the 9th, We broke up some time ago. Well about 6 months ago I started seeing her sister and we are still together... for now. I love her more than anything in the world I couldn't live without her, she makes my life worth living, but I'm 16 and shes 14 but we are in the same grade. Like I said I still love her more than anything, even when I was dating her sister I would wake up in the middle of the night thinking of her (my current girlfriend) not in a sexual way. I would just wake up sweating for some reason and I would be counfused and I would be thinking of her. Anyhow I just don't think she loves me anymore. I mean she won't tell me she loves me anymore, she completely ignores me at school and hangs around this other guy. I try as hard as I can to be the best boyfriend I can, like one time i wanted her to go to a race with me but thats not her thing, she's a city girl and I'm a country boy, I like country, she likes rap, i love my cowboy boots, but she hates them. Anyways about the race, I asked her to go with me, she said she would have to talk to her mom. At the time I couldn't tell anything was wrong, the next few days she began to ignore me and avoid me. I finally talked to her and asked about the race again and she said the same thing, she needed to talk to her mom, then I said it's not your kind of thing is it? She stammered and I said we don't have to go if you don't want to, so we didn't go and I didn't care, I settled for going to her house and doing nothing, and I didn't care at all, I'm just happy being with her. Everywhere we go I open doors for her, and all that stuff, I never curse in front of her, and I've never made a sexual remark to her. I really do love her and I try my best. I do things I don't want to do just to make her happy. Another thing, she refuses to open up to me. I ask her whats wrong and she says nothing, I just want to be someone she come to when shes sad and upset, and if shes mad at me I want her to tell me so we can work through it as a couple. What should I do? How can I fix things with her?
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reader, marriedchick  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 First of all the first paragraph you wrote tells me alot about you... she is the sister of your ex and what goes around comes around. Secondly you are both very young and she may not know what she wants right now try seeing other people there are plenty of other fish in the sea. thirdly when it comes to ladies, never act like you need them unless you are totally sure they are in love with you that is a turn off. hope i helped a little!
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