A
female
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26-29,
Dionee'
writes:I've been the agony aunt among the people I've known for a while. Those much older than me come to me. What would I know right? Thing is, I've always learned from the mistakes of others and gather What-Not-To-Do from that. Ever heard "A fool learns from his own mistakes, A wise man learns from the mistakes of others"? Some people need to make their own mistakes in order to learn I've learned over the past few years.Incompatability is an issue in today's world. Opposites Attract. Sad isn't it, depending on how you look at it. You're suppose to be with he/she who balances you out, completes you. Not someone who is so different it frustrates you. That's the difference. Why accept into your heart in the first place what doesn't feel right? Some say "It's complicated" but is it really? We often complicate the things that are actually very Simple. Let's keep it simple shall we? If you don't like something, either change it or stop complaining about it and accept it.If you're being abused, Do something about it or it will continue. If your relationship is going downhill, Do something about it or it will continue in that direction. Don't like the color of your hair, dye it or stop complaining about it and accept it. In life we don't have much choice. You can either live with it the way it is Or you can change it.If you have your eye on a certain guy or girl, you'll never know unless you try. I don't mean become a home wrecker. I've seen what that does in peoples homes. Why would you accept being second best? Always on the sidelines. I'm sure it gets pretty lonely out there all by yourself . . . Try to be someones PRIORITY for once instead of just another OPTION. Sex without mutual love is just sex but sex with mutual love is LoveMaking. Theres a difference.Dare to be different. If you are the side chick/guy, realize that you deserve better. You deserve to be the only one not the OPTION when it's convenient.Cheating is wrong, it's unfair and dishonest. If you want more than one person then do your spouse/partner a favor: stay single and play around with other people just like you, just leave your spouse/partner out of it. If children are involved then you are a selfish parent.Let's make the world a better place one person at a time: Begin with yourself.Life is short, Let's keep things simple.Your AuntDionee' Reply to this Article
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