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writes: Is this unusal?Before i lost my virginity i was fingered numerous times, and it was painful but felt good at the same time.After loosing my virginity it doesnt feel the same, and im not really interested in doing it anymore, but i dont know how to tell my mate about it. It doesnt really give me pleasure anymore so i don't cum easily anymore when he does it. How do i tell him about this? We have only had sex one time, and i dont plan on it anytime soon. I dont want him to seem like he's not pleasing me, but i just dont know what to do. Please help. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): It may that feelings of remorse and guilt are effecting you and that you are on the way to depression. Virginity is something that can not be given back once taken and so this may be weighing on you. It is very clear that you are confused and hurting.
I say talk to your bf and tell him how you feel.
Maybe slowing down and dealing with and coming to terms with your emotions and thoughts over this will help you.
I think holding off on sex until you sort things is a good and healthy decision-get things into perspective.
Is there a trusted family memeber you can turn to for advice and support?
Tell your BF exactly what you stated here, tell him you have concerns and how does he feel about it all.
*hugs*
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