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writes: My new bloke had a one night stand a few months before we met and the woman is now claiming she is pregnant with his child. He says if the the circumstances were different he would support her. Now i don't know how I feel, where I stand, or if it's me he wants!? please help! Anon
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): Same thing just happened to me. I met this amazing guy, fell in love with him and now a one night stand is 2months pregnant.He is an upstanding guy so is going to honour his responsibilities but i am torn as to whether this is something i want to be envolvled in. i am young and just getting to enjoy my independence now this man i am crazy about wants me to play mommy in 7 months to a child from a woman he never meant to see again. I dont want to do it, i am not ready and this is not what i signed up for. I love him but it was his mistake and the bill is a bit high. Good luck with your situation i was just writing to tell you that you are not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): This sort of happened to me a few years ago. I met this guy through a friend and we started seeing each other but nothing to heavy as he had only just split up from his girlfriend. Anyway a couple of months down the line, his ex phoned up and claimed she was pregnant (she had two other children from a previous relationship). Well the upshot of it is, a couple of weeks down the line he he went back to her and i have no more contact with him. He did feel really bad because he said if circumstances had been different he could see himself with me. Ok so he had a one night stand, we have all done this in the past and mistakes do happen. You certainly shouldnt feel angry or bitter to him as it was before your time. You just need to show him your support and listen to him if he feels the need to talk to you about it. Where you stand?!? Well if you want to still be with him you just have to give him time / be patient. He said himself it the circumstances had been different he would support her - like my story - but it was a one off. I dont know how long you have been together and if things are serious between you both. Like i said, be patient, be supportive and try not to push things.... slowly slowly. Good luck x
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