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writes: To make this short basically there is this boy i have alot of feelings for, but my best friend also has feelings for him. lets say the boys name is Rob and my best friends name is Monica.I was talkin to Rob for a long time and then i got a boyfriend therefore i couldnt tell him what to do. Well Monica took it upon herself to start calling him. I was at her house one day and she was talkin to his friend who was on Rob's cell fone. His friend gave her his own fone number, but she still had Rob's number on her caller id. So Monica started calling Rob claiming it was a friend thing. She started developing feelings for him, though he "says" he didnt.He came to her house one day just to chill and they ended up having sex in the car. I dont know the whole story behing it i keep hearing different things. Anyways when he asked me to prom with him she got really mad and started to hate me, at that time i had broken up with my boyfriend. Me and Rob started talking and he told me that he had sex with Monica because it was a spontaneous reaction.I have strong feelings for him and he seems to have strong feelings for me. Despite the fact him and my friend had like a 30-second sex session. Me and Rob love each other, and i just recently lost my virginity to him, which i kinda regret. I havent told anyone yet, and dont plan to anytime soon. It was only one time, and i dont think it will happen again.Me and my best friend rekindled things and are kewl again. Should i leave Rob alone, or continue to talk to him, because he has no feelings for Monica at all, and we have strong feelings for each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): What would a friend do?
Somewhere along the line; being that you are teens and therefore feel the world revolves around you, you both didn't stop to consider the other people that your intimacies might be hurting/betraying and you didn't even consider what is the right thing to do...you both just thought about...what do I want?
This guy Rob must be one smug bug.
Think about if you truly do love Rob. Think about your friendship. Now talk about it with girlfriend, be firm that you love Rob.
I say; this will not be the same two years from now.
Rob needs to tell Monica that he has no feelings for her and you both need to take her to dinner to tell her of your intentions with one another and ask for her "blessing". In the end, you and Rob will do what you will.
You need to apologize to your friend.
Since you were dating; Rob was "free". She didn't have to ask you for permission as you were not available and her and Rob were.
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