A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, My boyfriend and i were in a vacation last month. We went to a club, he got really drunk and when we got back to our hotel, he admitted that he kissed a woman. He said that the woman kissed him first and that she was really drunk as well at the same time. I told him in a very stable emotional that it i was disappointedbut at the same time I told him that I appreciated that he admitted it. After that, i tried to act normal since we were in a vacation. But, sometimes I still feel a bit disturbed with what happened. Is this cheating? What should I do? P.S: I knew the woman that he kissed, because he introduced me to her. I also have a curiousity about his sort-of ex, well more like his one night stand. He's still in contact with her and basically they're friends and his friends know her as well. 1. Whenever he talks about this girl, he always talks bad about her such as the way she dresses, her personality, her habits etc. one time he told me that she's very bitchy and she's very dumb for him. then anotehr time he told me that she is slutty from the way she dresses. 2. Sometimes I feel like he's trying to change my apperance to be the same like her. 3. The fact that he's still in contact with her gives me the insecurity whether he will have anotehr fling with her. Am i being overly sensitive? Part of me tells me that i am, but im confused.. please help.., any advice on this. Thanks.[mod note: 2 questions from same poster combined into one and they have been together 7 months]
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