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writes: Me and my boyfriend went on a break a few months ago and while we were "breaking" I hooked up with this guy I work with "Mike." I had always been attracted to Mike and have a blast with him. We bicker back and forth and he makes me laugh. Well recently I got back together with my boyfriend but the problem is I think I may really like Mike. When we hooked up we both knew it was just going to be a one time thing in the moment. I have often wondered if he had feelings for me as well. He always teases me at work and gives me a hard time. He bashes on my boyfriend all the time and acts like he at least cares about me. If I knew he geninuly liked me I might consider breaking up with my boyfriend for a shot with him. I dont know how to ask him though if I was just more than sex and if he could see us else where???? Please help????
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (22 December 2005):
 oh your poor boyfriend. Is doesn't sound fair that if you knew this guy liked you you would be willing to drop your man just like that. Instead, break up with him and tell him the reason why, let him get the info from you before he hears it from someone down the line, this will let him heal as he needs to. Then tell the other guy how you feel, if he doesn't want you well then it may be a little dose of karma for you. You should not have got back wih your boyfriend if you had feelings for someone else, it was a selfish move and no one can fix the mess but you. Good luck.
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