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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,A few weeks ago I was out with work colleagues at a bar to celebrate finishing a job.One of the guys with us , I have grown close to and we spend hours chatting (just general silly meaningless conversations) through mail , I was sat next to him and being quite drunk and flirty spent the whole evening chatting to him.Only afterwards have I realised a few things.We were touching palms to compare hand sizes, he held my hand there for some time..I was literally leaning against his leg with my leg under the table and he was on mine, we were touching each others hair alot and were stood so close our arms and elbows were touching. And all I could feel was this urge to just leap on him.... ...I don't know if he felt anything but he didn't seem to pull away or let go...he was cracking jokes all night and making me giggle! He's so charming , funny, fun and a breath of fresh air !He chatted to me as soon as I got to work the next day on mail and spent another day talking.Is this sexual tension? Or something genuine?? As soon as he walked in the room he caught my eye and I think I caught his as we exchanged this filthy dirty lusty look between us...which is also becoming increasingly common at work. I sit next to him and feel flustered all the time.He is alot older than me almost double my age but hes so so gorgeous and such a funny guy..what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): You are right,I feel like I need to snap out of it and get back into reality but not sure how to.I'm going to give it a few weeks and hopefully the silly crush has died down a bit. If not then I'll tell him. Thank you for your help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 So you know he's older but not sure by how much...
and you like him and want to get to know him better...
as long as there are no rules against dating co-workers and you are willing to run the risk of working there with him if it doesn't work out I'd say let him know you are interested.
you may find that your finding him so attractive means you want to see something that's not there....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): So_very_confused- no one that I know of....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 March 2013):
Is he married or otherwise involved with someone?
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