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Is this platonic friendship... or is there more in it?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi im sorry for the length of this question, I gabble A LOT and it is preety long so thank you for reading, I'm a bit confused at the moment,

I have a GREAT guy friend who I met at the beginning of September and we have just clicked! Straight away we both said that it was weird because we are both so comfortable with each other almost immediately and trust each other with anything. Lots of people have been assuming something is going on between us because we spend so much time together and they can "feel" something between us but there isn't. He walks me home from school almost every day, whenever we both can, and then catches the bus to his house.

I feel as if he is my best friend and he has said the same to me. We have had little moments when we are in a group where we would just silently share eye contact while others are talking for a few seconds and then it gets broken by other people. Whenever we are in a group and I am at the back by myself or he isn't sure where I am he turns around to see where I am and check that I am okay, which I think is so lovely and always walks with me in a group. He is so kind and sweet and am so glad I met him.

My question though is do you think he likes me because I'm not sure how I feel about him in that way but I find him amazing and I love him to pieces after only 2 months! I feel so close to him and it's so difficult to explain all the things I have noticed, I just want to know what all you great people think.. I LOVE this site! thank you for any help

love hannah xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

thanks for your replys :D

Anonny im in the same position as you, my guy has a girlfriend too but i didnt want to infuluence any of the responses thats why i didnt mention it before

im just afraid im going to lose him, he means so much to me

thankyou for your help both of you

good luck with every thing

love hannah xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

It sounds like a lovely basis for a relationship. Try to just let it take it's course and for things to happen naturally when the time is right. He may need time.

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A female reader, Anonny United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

Hi - like you the guy I'm in touch with now was in the beginning always making eye contact with me & we spent a lot of time smiling at each other & consequently everyone around us at the time used to tease us saying we fancied each other!!

- Well - it was true in my case - but he was already in a relationship so I dunno if he just wanted the attention!! -

So just beware - the signs you describe are positive & he might well fancy you - but equally some men just like to flirt!!

You could always ask him if he's interested!!

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