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writes:Hi, I am 21 years old and haven't had sex in the past 2 years, until this summer. I had sex with a guy over the summer, got pregnant and had an abortion and since then I haven't had sex. Anyways, for the past few months I have been really confused. I don't know if I am bisexual or straight and just having problems with men. Lately I have been going to websites with lesbian submission stories or threesomes stories(2women1man), I still read some stories with just me and women though. Also, everyday when I wake up, I feel like I have to go on these websites...to well satisfy myself, I guess you could say. I don't know if I am addicted or not. Another factor is that I have been taking this ADHD medication called Vyvanse(which is a stimulant) and these hormonal Progesterone Pills(I have a hormonal inbalance). I didn't used to have these urges until I started taking this stuff. So I don't know if this is me or the medicine and what happened over the summer, I don't know if that has some type of pyschological effect. I haven't talked to anyone about it. Please help me....I really don't know what is wrong with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply. It kind of helped. I am actually very sexually attracted to men and actually enjoy sex with men. I didn't think about it until you asked those questions, so thank you. And looking back this summer when I had sex with the guy, I didn't know him well and was drinking. I was enjoying the foreplay part and was getting really turned on, but when we were starting to have sex...well he came in about 2 seconds(literally), so I was all turned on and well never got my turn to Orgasm. He was so freaked that he came, I had to get off him immediately. Then he told me to jump up and down!huh, like that would help. After that whole experience, never really talked to the guy again and haven't had sex again. So I'm thinking that I might be having a bit of a dry spell and just curious...so thank you.
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reader, kaytee8721 +, writes (18 November 2008):
Hmmm...Ok well I am a lesbian. I finally came out when I was 19. I struggled with it for a long time. I fought it by having sex with guys. I hated sex with a man. I couldnt be sober with a man. I had always had fantasies of being with a woman and I finally did. I loved it, I was so turned on. I never had this feeling with a man. I am physically attracted to men but not sexually. Whereas with a woman Im attracted in every way and can emotionally connect with a woman. Do you enjoy sex with a man? Do men turn you on? If your answer is no then I would try to be with a woman for the experience to see if you enjoy this. If so then you obviously will have your answer. If you enjoy both then your bisexual. I dont believe in this but i have friends who claim its an orientation. If you dont enjoy it then it probably was just curiosity.
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