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30-35,
*lliebellie
writes:hi i was wondering if people had any advice. basically this guy asked me out and thats all cool but the only thing is that my mum is becoming so awkward when i talk about it. shes like who else are you going with? she dusnt realise its a date and she seems almost reluctant to let me go. ive asked her why shes so awkward and she was like i dont think its appropriate and all that rubbish. i think she still think im 9 and she dusnt realise that i talk to this guy everyday and we know each other quite well. she always seems to take the mick out of me whenver i talk about him. is this normal?!?!? another thing she is always asking is that she hopes im not being too forward with him. ahahah its driving me slightly mental. any tips wud be v appreicated thanks loadsellie Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): I think your mom is jst worried for you since so many yung girls are more experienced these days. I didn't start dating until a few years ago and I am 21.
If/When you do go on a date though b careful to make sure she knows who you are with and where you will be going. The most common form of rape is date rape.
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reader, dont_worry  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Hey ellie, well yeah, i had the same problem with my mum, it seems she doesnt quite understand you've grown up.Maybe you just need to have a serious conversation with your mum, make her understand you are going to have a date with a guy that you know quite well, tell her that she doesnt have to worry for you, because you know how to take care and you know the limits with boys.Try to look mature, so she can feel like she can trust you, its the only way. She needs to understand you are beggining to date guys and this is not going to be the last date you are having, so please talk to her! good luck (:
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