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writes:Last night I had anal sex for the first time but it's like the guy didn't know what was happening, I don't think he realised it was my anus or not. But he kept alternating between the two. I've heard this can cause disease, does anyone know how likely this is? Also this morning I pooped but loads came out like all at once and it was a really strange feeling, is this normal?I feel like total rubbish this morning. I cannot believe that I've slept with another guy. I did know him, he's best mates with one of the guys I've already slept with. I know he used to like me for like a year, but now I can't help feeling used.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): is anal sex normal? im straight but i been having this urges of having anal sex with my girfriend but the bad thing is that she dont like it, and she gets mad at me everytime i try.
ps: whats the best thing i can do to make this possible?
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Also be on the lookout for a bladder infection which if left untreated could lead to a kidney infection and that is a very serious situation.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Not only will it cause vaginal infections it can also cause trouble in the intestional tract as well. Women's bodies are different than men's are and you could eventually develope what is caused a recticell. This is when the walls of the backside start dropping and it can lead to surgery. Although other things such straining due to constipation etc can cause the dropping down of the muscles that support the anal canal. it is basically caused by the stretching and weakening of the muscles.
The above mentioned happens more often in someone who is older. However it causes the problem and can happen at anytime in your life. The entrance is only so large and it's actually intened to be an EXIT only. Cucumber is correct in the assumption about the loose movements. It would be like having an emema. Lubrication to the walls, absorbed by the body and then ........what a mess.
If a guy has trouble guiding himself to the proper entrance, you may do this without any problem by using a free hand. Simple direction can prevent the *accident and cause you less worry or pain.
Please refrain from letting yourself be drawn into this type of situation again. It could be it was really an accident but it's also highly likely that he KNEW what he WAS DOING! It's never a good idea to sleep around for various reasons and YES DISEASE it a Big factor, so is pregnancy. Never allow anyone to degrade you or use you. Be cautious and live your life to the fullest, you don't have to have sex to have someone care about you or love you. Pray that you can find a guy who will treat you with the ustmost respect and give you all the love you need. When it's time to have a deeper, more intement relationship you will be suprised how much better you will feel about sex and about yourself in general. *Smiles
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Blue_Angel
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